Sunday, December 30, 2012

32 Survival Skills Your Child Should Know and Be Able to Do ASAP!



  • Grow vegetables from seeds
  • Have local edible and medicinal plant foraging skills
  • Knowledge of dietary needs and how to meet them using wild plants and game
  • Make a fire and know fire safety
  • Cook on an open fire
  • Open a can of food with and without can opener (rub can lid ridge on cement and then pry open with knife)
  • Be able to tell if food is too spoiled to eat
  • How to safely use a knife
  • How to shoot a sling shot
  • How to hunt small game with snares, traps and sling shot
  • How to fish and hunt-bow & gun when old enough
  • How to clean fish and wild game
  • Find water and identify if it’s safe to drink
  • Filter and boil water to drink
  • Basic first aid
  • Basic hygiene practices
  • Find or build a shelter in the wilderness
  • How to stay warm, cool and dry in the elements
  • How, Why and When to stay hidden
  • Self defense
  • How to make a basic weapon and how to use it
  • Be able to run and walk a good distance and be in generally good shape
  • How to climb a tree- to get away from predators, get directional barrings, and hunt.
  • How to read a map and use a compass
  • How to read the sky for directions, time and approaching bad weather
  • Know where family and friends live if they need to find them
  • How to sew so they can mend clothing or any fabric and even make things such as bags or scrap quilts
  • How to bargain and trade (Kids naturally do this with their toys so teach them at garage sales.)
  • How to be responsible for themselves and to be aware of their surroundings at all times
  • Have a natural curiosity and good problem solving skills
  • Be hard working and a self starter and a family helper not a complainer!
  • Have a strong faith in God (morals, memorize bible verses, prayers, songs, and have a hope for heaven)


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    Tuesday, December 11, 2012

    Lunchbox Awesome bento lunch boxes for kids

    There is this lady who makes bento box lunches for her son.  They are so cute!  She is at http://lunchboxawesome.tumblr.com

    Bento Year 2 Day 6
“On your marks, get set… uno for the money, due for the show, tre to get ready, and quattro to… I can’t believe it… GO!” -Luigi
So this year is going to be a little tricky for bento making because I am traveling quite a bit. Hence the gap in days. This lunch is inspired from my trip to Disneyland and the new Cars Land! Expect to see more cars in future lunches. 

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    Sunday, December 2, 2012

    Mom, why'd you die so early...

    Mom,
    I am so mad at you for dying so early in life.
    I still had so much to learn, so much to do with you guys.
    I really wished you had taken care of yourselves so you could have lived long, great lives.
    When Sadi, my first grandchild was born, I cried for months (I still do, but not as long), long periods, by myself in my truck driving down the road, mind wandering about what could have been.  Why did you have to die so early.  I wish you could have seen how J and KT grew up, how we all wandered all over with the Navy, staying in different parts of the world, 3 yrs at a time.  I can't seem to stop wandering.
    Mom, when you died, you took a big chunk of my heart with you, I could no longer bare the disfunctionality of our family.  I swore I would never live close to our primary family again.  The fighting, the arguing, the cussing, the physical fights, the mental fights, the emotional fights all tore down my spirital self.
    There have been so many times that I wish I could talk to you for a few hrs to answer the important questions that only you could have answered.
    You were my best friend and I got lost when you died.  23 yrs later and I am still running.  I can't seem to find my way, a solid path that I could walk, that could mend my broken heart.
    But I had to go on, I had 2 kids to raise - without you. I messed up a lot.  The kids are mad at me for raising them the way I did.  Yet, they loved the fact we have traveled all over the USA and Canada.  Been to every major museum, Presidential Libraries, most Civil War and Revolutionary War battlefields.  I tried to subject them to our culture, to learn first hand our history.
    I was a major volunteer for the Red Cross, took the kids to all the fires that I had to go to in the middle of the night, trying to help victims of disasters.  I worked every major disaster here in the US and the kids helped out along the way.  KT even manages a homeless shelter for the county we live in.  It's akin to working a Red Cross shelter during a disaster.  She's really good at it, she learned something very important.  Give back to the community you live in, help where ever you can.  Something you taught me from the time I came out of the womb...thanks Mom.
    I am so mad at you for not being there when I got my first Navy Achievement Medal.  When it was being pinned on me, my eyes welled up and my throat tightened so badly, I couldn't even talk.  I know you were there, I could feel you.  But not from this world.
    You didn't get to see the kids in martial arts, winning trophies.  KT in tap and ballet.  Both graduation from kindergarten, from elementary to middle school, from middle school to high school.  And finally, at their high school graduations.  You didn't get to see Jason go in the Marine Corps, or see me and Jason standing next to each other in our military uniforms.  I was so proud, but I didn't have amother or father to share that pride with.
    Jason getting married and having two babies.  KT graduating from college.  Jason, a federal law enforcement officer.  So many things you missed out on.  I miss you so much.
    I just pray that I don't leave this earth before my grandkids are grown and have children of their own.  I fear death.  Not for me, but for the survivors.  I don't want them to go thru the pain of watching loved ones wither away to nothingesss.  I don't want to tear a part of their hearts out, wounded the rest of their days.
    Mom, I love you very much.  I wish we had talked more, argued less.  The world is a totally different place now.  I remember how I hardly ever had enough money to make long distance calls.  So that burden was on you and dad to call me.  Now there's the internet, email, chat, IM and best of all, cell phones.  We can't live without our cell phones.  I constantly think about how we were really robbed growing up.  I wish we had the technology back when I was growing up.  I sure could have used a 'chat' with you.
    God I miss you and Dad.  You died way too early.
    The holidays are upon us now.  A bittersweet time for me.  I try to think positive, but it's hard when you and dad aren't here.  I wish you could see the faces of the grandbabies on Christmas morning.
    I miss you.  I wish you were here.  I could really use a big hug right now.
    I love you..