Friday, December 30, 2011

11 Fun Activities For When Winter Weather Traps You Indoors

It's freezing outside and your baby has already completed his usual circuit of activity mat, bouncy seat, and Exersaucer. With hours to go before his next nap, you need tactics to keep your wee one cooing when Old Man Winter traps you indoors. Try these fun indoor activities to pass a gray day. The time will fly!

Board Approval: 7 Classic Board Games for Kids

Chutes and Ladders
Chutes and laddersBest for ages 3 to 5  For more

What kids learn: To take turns, count spaces, and accept rewards and consequences.

The basics: Spin the wheel to move your pawn up the board. Land at the base of a ladder and you get to climb up. But if you stop at the top of a chute, you'll slide back down.

Keep in mind: At this age, games are more about the journey than the destination. Your kid may actually want to go down the ladder. Let him.

Game tip: "For a preschooler, this game could evolve into an elaborate fantasy, or he may get bored and quit in the middle," says Parents advisor Kathleen McCartney, PhD, dean of the Harvard Graduate School of Education, in Cambridge, MA.

Kid-Friendly Casserole Recipes

Kid-Friendly Casserole Recipes

These one-dish dinners feature kid-favorite flavors and ingredients, making them perfect for family dinners.
Tortellini Casserole 
Tortellini Casserole
Cheese-filled pasta makes this a heartier version of the classic mac and cheese.  For more

20 Games to Play in the Snow

20 great games to cure cabin fever.

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In week six of Children of Divorce and Changing Families' 8-week program, we do an exercise where we ask each child in the 10-12 year old group to create a set of rules that they wish their parents would follow to ease post divorce stresses.
The rules they write privately are then shared with the class, the goal of which is to create a list to present to the parent's group. Rules that start out specific to each child merge with other similar requests. The kids tweak the wording for these and other parallel rules until "stop saying mom is stupid" and "don't tell me my dad abandoned us" gets written down on a large strip of paper as the all encompassing: "Don't say bad things about my other parent".
The top ten rules listed below were the most commonly wished for, compiled from the many times I've conducted this exercise (3 times a year for the last 5 years).

Thursday, December 29, 2011

9 Development Reasons Why Toddlers Can be Difficult to Discipline


9 Development Reasons Why Toddlers Can be Difficult to Discipline

To cope with toddler behavior it helps to remember the basic principle of developmental discipline: the drive that babies have to develop is the same one that creates discipline challenges.
1. Wheels to run on
Imagine how it must feel to learn to walk! He can see all those tempting delights around the room, and he finds ways to get his hands on many of them. once the developmental skill of walking appears, children have an intense drive to master it. So toddlers toddle—constantly. And they can toddle into unsafe situations. Walking progresses to running, and climbing a few stairs turns into scaling kitchen counters.
2. Hands as tools
Along with learning how to pick up things, the one- year- old baby develops hand skills to manipulate what he gets. Doors are to be opened, knobs turned, drawers pulled, dangling cords yanked, and waste cans emptied. Everything within walking and grabbing distance is fair game, or so he figures. To the inquisitive adventurer, the whole house is an unexplored continent, and he intends to leave no stone unturned.

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She's Here!
Congratulations! After weeks (and weeks) of waiting and wondering, your little one has finally made her grand entrance. And overwhelmed probably doesn't even come close to describing how you're feeling right now. After all, in the space of one magical day, that comparatively low-maintenance baby bump suddenly transformed into a bona fide little person, the kind who needs to be fed, diapered, and comforted 24/7. A little scary, right? Trust us, you'll get the hang of it faster than you imagine.
Luckily, new babies are fairly straightforward creatures, with daily routines that revolve around sleeping, eating, crying, and pooping. For now, sleeping is at the top of her to-do list. The average newborn snoozes around 16-1/2 hours a day -- and some for hours more than that. For now, enjoy the momentary peace -- and snag a catnap (or two) for yourself while you're at it.

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Top Tips for Raising a Terrific Toddler

The toddler years are some of the most exciting and dynamic in all of childhood. During this stage, children experience extensive cognitive, emotional, and physical development.
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Need help with your toddler? Here’s an easy guide with nine tips containing common mistakes and helpful remedies.
1. Be Consistent.
Toddlers do best when they know what to expect, whether it's what time they bathe or go to bed or what consequences they'll face for misbehaving. The more consistent and predictable things are, the more resilient and agreeable a toddler is likely to be.
Fix it: As much as you can, keep regular routines for your child. Consistency can be a challenge when parents (or other caregivers) don't see eye to eye.
Not sure how best to react if your child dumps food on the floor or ignores bedtime? Sit down with your partner ahead of time to decide on an appropriate response -- and stick with it.
"You don't want to send mixed messages," says Tanya Remer Altmann, MD, the author of Mommy Calls: Dr. Tanya Answers Parents' Top 101 Questions about Babies and Toddlers and a pediatrician in private practice in Los Angeles. "You really want to be consistent."

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20 Everyday Items My Toddler Finds Fascinating

It’s no secret that toddlers are fascinated by the most mundane things, but man, it’s like striking gold when you realize which everyday household items your toddler fancies because you know what that means: your kid is occupied! Unless of course, your toddler is fascinated by plugs and kitchen knives and then, well, not so good.
When I discover Violet is into some run-of-the-mill item just lying around the house, I encourage her interest because DUH, she’ll be entertained. Secondly, this kind of interest is excellent for the little imagination. For instance, Violet loves candles.  LOVES them. She especially likes the scented kind and will sniff them several times and say the same thing each time: “Mmmmmm. Smells good!” She also moves them around the house and creates little scenarios with them: “Oh no, candle, come back!” She makes them chase each other and help each other out of sticky situations. I’ve cooked an entire meal for the family while Violet is engrossed in candle play.

What Were They Thinking?! The Most Age-Inappropriate Toddler Gear


I am notoriously freaked about raising a happy, healthy, well-adjusted daughter among the madness of today. It isn’t just the media that is screwing with our kids’ heads either. Clothing can be pretty messed up. I mean, high heels for babies? Seriously? And toys! Who’d have thought toys could be mentally harmful for toddlers?
I hate Barbie. I hate all dolls, actually. But if my daughter wants a doll or plays with a doll, I’m cool with it. However, I have never bought her one just to buy her one. She’s been given dolls as gifts but, for the most part, they remain untouched. That may be a good thing when you get a load of some of the dolls on the market.

10 Things You Should NEVER Say to a Toddler



(courtesy of http://blogs.babble.com)

None of us know what we’re doing as parents, or at least that’s what I like to tell myself. Besides, anyone who claims to know better than the rest of us better have children who sleep past 9 am, wipe their own butts (and well), and actually enjoy being seen rather than heard.



Babble editor, Mira Jacob wrote the piece, 15 Ways NOT to Raise Your Toddler because she’s a mom who’s keepin’ it real; real honest and real hilarious.
Just like our toddlers, we don’t always want to be told what to say or do so I offer the following list of things you should NEVER say to a toddler …

Sunday, December 25, 2011

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Saturday, November 19, 2011

Great Birthday Party Ideas for Toddlers and Preschoolers

Does your tot have a passion for piglets or pirates or playing princess? Then give her current craze a starring role at her bash. Here are some of the best little-kid birthday party themes — and the fun and games to go along with them.




25 Things You Didn't Know About 'Beauty and the Beast'



25 Things You Didn't Know About 'Beauty and the Beast'
By Gary Susman (Subscribe to Gary Susman's posts)
Posted Nov 15th 2011 9:00AM
Filed under: Best Movies Ever, Family Film Guide, Columns, This Week in Movies

Be our guest, be our guest
Put your knowledge to the test
There's some trivia you may know
But you might not know the rest
It's a treat, it's a feast,
Disney's 'Beauty and the Beast'
Now the movie's turning 20
We've come up with factoids plenty
Chip 'n' Dale, Jean Cocteau,
They're connected, don't you know
As are Jackie Chan and Pixar -- you impressed?
Sure, these lyrics may be trash, man
(We're so sorry, Howard Ashman)
But be our guest, read the rest, be our guest!

1. 'Beauty and the Beast' was more than 50 years in the making. It was one of the first fairy tales Walt Disney tried to adapt after the success of his first animated feature, 1937's 'Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs,' but his writers couldn't get a handle on the story.

2. Before the Disney cartoon, the most famous film version of 'Beauty and the Beast' was the 1946 live-action film by Jean Cocteau. From this classic French film, the Disney version would borrow the ideas of a rival suitor for Belle and household objects in the Beast's castle coming to life.

3. Starting in 1987, Disney storyboard artists spent two years working on a version of the tale, only to have Disney studio chief Jeffrey Katzenberg scrap their work and start from scratch. The new directive: make a movie like Disney's recent success 'The Little Mermaid,' a Broadway-style musical with a strong heroine

4. To that end, Katzenberg enlisted the 'Mermaid' songwriting team of Alan Menken and Howard Ashman. Ashman was dying of AIDS at the time and couldn't travel far, so much of the story's development took place at a Residence Inn in Fishkill, New York, not far from where the lyricist lived.

5. Screenwriter Linda Woolverton landed the job despite having written only a few scripts for Disney cartoon series 'Chip 'n' Dale Rescue Rangers.' She made a point of making Belle an unusual Disney heroine: she wasn't a princess, she liked books, she was independent, and she had no interest in marrying the handsomest eligible male around (the vain, macho Gaston).

6. Katzenberg also hired relative neophytes Kirk Wise and Gary Trousdale to direct; their previous major credit had been a short called 'Cranium Command,' a film commissioned for an attraction at Disney's EPCOT Center.

7. Another unlikely hire: Robby Benson, the dreamy-eyed, soft-spoken actor best known for playing sensitive teen leads in movies like 'Ice Castles' and 'The Chosen.' But in his audition, he summoned up a dark, rumbling voice that was perfect for the Beast. "There's a rage and torment in this character I've never been asked to use before," he told Entertainment Weekly.

8. Benson's booming bellow was his own, but the Beast's howls were enhanced electronically, mixed with the sounds of growling panthers and lions.

9. For the other leads, Belle and Gaston, Disney went with seasoned Broadway performers Paige O'Hara and Richard White.

10. Even the well-known veteran movie and TV character actors who played the Beast's servants-turned-knickknacks were performers with a Broadway background -- Jerry Orbach (Lumiere), Angela Lansbury (Mrs. Potts), and David Ogden Stiers (Cogsworth).

11. As Chip, the teacup who is Mrs. Potts' son, Bradley Michael Pierce, initially had just one line of dialogue, but the boy so impressed the filmmakers that they expanded his part and cut out the role of a mute music box.

12. Years before 'Toy Story,' 'Beauty' marked one of Disney's first collaborations with Pixar, which lent its computer-animation software to the sequence where Belle and the Beast dance to the title ballad. The software allowed the animators to create a 360-degree ballroom set as the camera appeared to twirl around the dancing couple. Critics singled out the sequence as a highlight of the film, and its success helped convince Disney to make the leap into full-length computer-animated features.

13. Ashman was 40 when he died in March 1991, eight months before the release of the completed film, which he never got to see. He'd also been at work with Menken on lyrics for the next Disney cartoon feature, 'Aladdin.' Those songs would be completed by lyricist Tim Rice.

14. Upon its release in November 1991, the film was hailed as an instant success. Frank Rich, the New York Times' powerful theater critic, asserted that it was a better musical than anything he'd seen on Broadway that year. Audiences made it the first animated feature to earn more than $100 million at the box office. By the end of its six-month run in theaters, it had earned $146 million in the U.S. and Canada. It was the third highest-grossing movie of 1991 (after 'Terminator 2: Judgment Day' and 'Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves').


'Beauty and the Beast' - Original Trailer


15. 'Beauty' became the first animated film ever to be nominated for the Academy Award for Best Picture. It was also the last, until Disney/Pixar's 'Up' 18 years later.

16. 'Beauty' did win two Oscars, for its musical score and for Best Original Song, for the title tune.

17. The Celine Dion-Peabo Bryson version of the song, heard over the end credits, became a top 10 hit single in the U.S. and in the U.K.

18. When the film was released in Chinese-language markets, the Beast's speaking and singing voices were dubbed by Jackie Chan.

19. Inspired by Frank Rich's comment, Disney developed 'Beauty' into the first of many Broadway musicals based on its animated features. It opened in 1994 and ran for 5,464 performances, making it the eighth longest-running show in Broadway history. After 13 years, Disney closed the show in 2007 only because it didn't want 'Beauty' stealing the thunder of its new princess-themed musical, 'The Little Mermaid.'

20. The film's spinoffs include two straight-to-video "midquels" (sequels that take place amid the sequence of events of the original film): 'Belle's Enchanted Christmas' and 'Belle's Magical World.' Other spinoffs include a live-action TV series ('Sing Me a Story with Belle') and six video games.

21. A 2002 IMAX re-release included a new sequence built around a song, 'Human Again,' that had been deleted from the original film.

22. Woolverton went on to co-write Disney's 'The Lion King' and 'Mulan,' and she wrote the studio's huge 2010 blockbuster version of 'Alice in Wonderland.'

23. Wise and Trousdale went on to work on such Disney features as 'The Lion King,' 'The Hunchback of Notre Dame,' and 'Atlantis: The Lost Empire.'

24. O'Hara turned up (along with several other actresses best known for voicing Disney cartoon heroines) in 2007's 'Enchanted.' She appeared as a soap opera actress on TV, in a scene echoing the one where Belle tends to the Beast's wounds. Her character's name was Angela, an apparent reference to 'Beauty and the Beast' co-star Angela Lansbury.

25. In the wake of the success in September of the 3D re-release of 'The Lion King,' 'Beauty and the Beast' will be re-released in 3D in theaters on January 13.

[Photo: Disney]

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Tot Learning Time

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Funny Things Kids Say

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Various Crafts

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The Many Uses of Aluminum Foil

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

The Year 2000

Me and your aunt lived up North.  Your daddy lived down south and was a senior in high school.  He became super rebellious.  I didn't want to go to his graduation, because he had been such an idiot and a jerk.  He pissed away his senior year.  My dad was not in very good health so he sent Jason money to buy himself a car.  Your daddy bought a 4 wheel drive Jeep.  It ate up gas and was nothing but a pain.  He worked at Firestone, got fired for forgetting to put oil in a car...and it burned out the engine...
Finallly, your dad moved up North with me and your aunt.  He decided to talk to recruiters.  My dad and I were not getting along well at all.  I felt your dad was driving a wedge deeper into mine and my dad's relationship.
On Thanksgiving, we went up to Ohio to spend it with our friend's up there, and while we were there, my dad died.  Back then, we didn't have cell phones, so we didn't find out until we got back home at 0400 on Monday morning when I listened to the answer machine. I refused to go to the funeral, because of the hatred I had in my heart for my dad.  But I wanted your daddy and aunt to go.  Your daddy was 18 and your aunt was 16.
When your daddy came home, he went down and enlisted in the Marine Corps.  We went to Ohio for Christmas vacation and drove back Christmas Day to take him to the Recruiting Station for him to head off to boot camp.  I was so proud of him, but so much had happened over the last 1.5 years...

The Year 1999

I had gotten transferred up north in May of 1999.
I bought a house in M.
Your daddy was a junior in high school and I decided to let him stay down south the following year, so he could graduate with all of his buddies and finish MCJROTC.  What a mistake.
I left my new Nissan Altima with him...he had it for 29 days and while changing a CD in the car CD player, he hit a 12" curb...bent the frame, broke the whole front axle, what a mess.  I wish I had a photo of it...that is when he was a junior.  It took almost a month to fix.  I was so mad.  When school got out in June, I had him and your aunt drive up north and I kept the Nissan and my Chevy Astro Van with me up North.  I didn't want him to have a car, because I could see he hadn't learned his lesson.  And at my expense...I think that summer he went with my father, rv'ing around the country.
Your aunt and I took 3 wks and drove thru the New England states, up to Quebec, Canada to Montreal and back down to New York.  The morning we left, John Frances Kennedy Jr, his wife and her twin sister, left for a cousins wedding and they never made it there.  He was piloting a small single engine airplane.  While we were on our trip, we kept the radio on, listening to hear what happened and if they  had found bodies.  It was a sad time for America.  Only Caroline was left of John Frances Kennedy's off-spring.
We stayed at Lake Placid for a few days, renting a Camping Cottage at the KOA Campground.  We had such a great time.  The Ironman Competition was going on, so we got to see the athletes practice.  We rented a sail boat and went out on the lake and your aunt would dive off the bow of the boat and I would go back in a circle to pick her up, just so she could do it again.  We had such a good time.
We rented racing cars and raced in an indoor track in Quebec, and had a blast.  She was pretty good.

Thursday, April 7, 2011

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